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The Harsh Social Impact of the Shallon Lester Drama

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What is this whole drama really about? Gender? Psychological Abuse?

00:00 – What Shallon Lester did & her defenders
02:09 – Man vs Women? Gender War & Group Think
05:00 – How both Genders can Abuse.
06:00 – PUAs, Incels & Manosphere vs Shallon & “Female” Content
07:00 – Cancel Culture & Double Standards

09:10 – I’m not only defending Men
11:00 – Deflecting the argument. (Lemons vs Oranges)
13:15- The Divide between Male & Female
17:00 – “Stay in your lane” + Racism
19:26 – My Direct Experience with Manipulation

21:27 – Celebrity Gossip isn’t the Problem
23:00 – If a young girl takes Shallon’s Advice
26:47 – Imagine if your Son or Daughter met Shallon.
29:00 – Why her past action’s still matter
30:48 – My Experience with Bullies & Abuse.

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  1. baby robot 1 year ago

    anyone can be an abuser, anyone can have a mental illness, anyone can be abused.

    no one is safe and that’s absolutely tragic.

  2. Ariana Grande 1 year ago

    y’all talking about how women can abuse too but always defend selena gomez when she literally abused justin bieber as a minor there is a literal video just look it up.

  3. Kung fu Benny 1 year ago

    We get it bro, you vape

  4. SchoggiGurke 1 year ago

    Lästern means gossiping in German. Läster (in German) and Lester are pronounced the same. It fits….

  5. i m 1 year ago

    It's not about gender people just suck

  6. I don’t know anymore 1 year ago

    I bet she would look at you and say YOU SHOULD LOOK LIKE AN ASIAN MEN

  7. Kristin Hanna 1 year ago

    Right on, Pierre

  8. Annie Gil 1 year ago

    Abuse… is abuse!
    It doesn’t matter the gender! and it doesn’t mean that “all men” or “all women” are abusive but some of them are. This is about abusive people! And she is an abusive person!

  9. Kuma chan 1 year ago

    When I thought noone could be worser than Amberlynn Reid. I didnt even know who is she before Dangelos video.

  10. TheTreasury 1 year ago

    The type of world you described towards the end is exactly the type of world I also want to live in. Sometimes I even wish that it was possible to just leave this world and go to another one.

  11. St. Krane 1 year ago

    I'm so glad I found your channel!

  12. Ashley D. 1 year ago

    I understand completely everything you’re saying however you and many other people in the world are neglecting spiritual element in this and the spiritual component that it plays in this narrative. I hope and pray people can be in tune with who they are, why they were put on this earth, who created us and how combat these evil principles and how to find healing through our Creator. <—(God/Jesus) PERIODT

  13. DistressedDamsel79 1 year ago

    Pierre, thank you for being vulnerable, especially on the internet where cynicism and negativity is often valued over empathy. Just felt lead to post something positive and encouraging because this was a heavy one. Have a blessed day! 😊😊

  14. julian sanchez 1 year ago

    I thought you were more woke than to get offended over the ignorant comments she made about Asian men and how those ignorant comments describe you. I mean i hear offensive things that relate to me all the time but if i get offended i fall into the trap. They get me where they wanted. I give them my power. Now Shallon will get even more famous because same has happened with Jefree Star, James Charles and so on… So at the end of the day all the youtubers who made witch hunt style videos to destroy her will lose in the end because you added malicious intent out of anger or envy i get it but still that's how things work.

  15. Carolyn Dodds 1 year ago

    You gained another subscriber!
    Abuse is abuse regardless on gender or what kind! You seem like such a great guy. Sorry to hear you've been abused! That's terrible. 💔 Thank you for also mentioning Johnny & Amber! I hate this whole thing with genders & double standards & the Metoo movement! I hate whenever someone brings gender to an argument especially with abuse! All of it drives me crazy!

    I think part of the problem with her fans is their being manipulated by Shallon. Shallon has admitted to being a narcissist & narcissists are brilliant with manipulation! I'm glad you brought up Evil Week because I didn't even know about those videos. I used to be a fan but I stopped when she became too negative especially towards mental health. Also some things just got too obvious because I've suffered emotional manipulation & I got red flags from Shallon.

    I've been emotionally manipulated & its not fun though it's been family mostly for me. :/ I've been traumatized to the point where I literally have a difficult time trusting anybody & it's not just because of my Borderline as everyone blames it on! 😒 I got/get abused by my mom. She emotionally manipulates the people around me. I have a horrible relationship with one of my siblings because of it & the results are same as Shallon's fans defending Shallon just different people and scenario.

    Anyways at this point I'm just glad she's being called out on especially with other information about her like her real age which is 39 not 35…

  16. Inappropriate and Unprofessional 1 year ago

    Exactly, it’s about abusive behavior. So why not make it about abusive behavior on YouTube on the whole? You mischaracterize the point again. Shallon is part of a larger problem.

    The issue of exposure is a red herring. We’re talking about abuse, not how many people do or don’t take red pillers, MGTOW, incels seriously, how many people watch them, or whether they’re monetized.

    Pointing this out doesn’t make someone a Shallon dickrider. Also, it’s not about “male” abuse, but a subsection of men on YouTube called the “manosphere.”


    I watched D’Angelo’s video. I’ve also been hospitalized for suicide attempts. And I’ve been abused, physically, verbally, and emotionally. I know what you’re both talking about.

    If you have a problem with abuse, then be against it, not just when it has to do with your friend. Your arguments suck.

  17. WonHakWoon 1 year ago

    Bro, you just earned another subscriber… me 🙂

  18. makrauchenia1 1 year ago

    I can't understand why so many youtuber feed her. Maybe they want to be recommended to her fans? After watching this my youtube is full of recommendations of her videos and videos about her, saying – don't watch her, she is evil. I want my music back 🙁

  19. Banira 1 year ago

    It really is sad to see all these women claim that "oh men abuse more and it's rare for women to be abusers talk about men wrong ignore their problems". It's really saddening because imagine if women were in that position that nobody would care that we are being abused and would just over-look it and we would not be able to talk about it because we would not be taken seriously. I mean here we have a woman admitting to being an abuser, giving a motherflippin tutorial on how to be a manipulative abuser HELLO? And also recently Johny Depp and Amber whateverherlastnameis case showed exactly how detrimental consequences it can have if we ignore female abusers. We should stop this mentality where something is okay or less serious because someone else does it worse. It's almost like we can't talk about multiple things at once -_- If you people want Pierre to talk about something so bad you have to criticize him, turn on your own damn camera and make a video. Buncha complainers.

  20. Earth Angel 1 year ago

    I thought you might be interested in this documentary "Out of Shadows" https://youtu.be/MY8Nfzcn1qQ

  21. MBK 1 year ago

    unsubscribing from shallop and subscribing to Pierre after having the wool pulled from my eyes and realising what a toxic mess she is and that i need Pierre in my life as a positive non manipulative or abusive influence.

  22. Janis Barrera 1 year ago

    Your have made me think about things very differently and change perspectives and so grateful for that keep being a "dreamer" you're not the only one ♥️

  23. King I Dog 1 year ago

    Hell I’ve been abused by a woman not physically but mentally I felt drained I lost my will to live I considered suicide I was so depressed so fuck you if you think men can’t be abused. It is possible because in a relationship men are making they self vulnerable and girls cause be peace’s of shit. A lot are not all but a good amount are.

  24. Shruthi Michael 1 year ago

    The main thing to be pointed out here is that , the topic, is abusive behaviour and how someone is normalising or promoting it. You're not saying that a single person or a gender is bad or abusive. You're calling out the issue and saying that's bad. People tend to miss out that completely.

  25. T. McMullen 1 year ago

    Wow. Your video was real. I teared up at min 31.00.

  26. Harriet M 1 year ago

    Just found you,you are gorgeous!

  27. Jay Kim 1 year ago

    shallon lester? shallow lester

  28. Mumma Loves Makeup 1 year ago

    Unfortunately the current outrage surrounding this woman will run its course and it’ll be someone else everyone’s discussing next month… In the meantime she’s more infamous than ever and people like me who had zero clue who she was 2 days ago are now up to our eyeballs in everything Shallon. In a genuinely sick way she’s winning 🤷🏼‍♀️

  29. Drea the Bandalore 1 year ago

    I would look into the whole relationship coach channels in general. I subbed to loads when I went through my last breakup. Some toxic channels about. Best thing to do is talk through your thoughts and situations with a professional. Works wonders

  30. Jules_49ers 1 year ago

    🙌 🙌

  31. Sara R 1 year ago

    I want to like this video, it’s an interesting topic and you have great insight. But I had to dislike and click off after a few minutes because it seems so uninformed. “Incel” is NOT a slur. Incels are misogynists that dehumanize women. “Slur” requires systemic mistreatment and unless you think incels are misunderstood and mistreated (which they are not, they say disgusting things) it can’t be a slur. They call themselves incels because they think they have a right to sex, there is a reason they call themselves that. And I think it’s really irresponsible to say most people cancelled from Me Too are men falsely accused. Men abuse women more than women abuse men, that’s why men were called out. I think we see abusive female teachers more than celebrities and they are called out. But you have no idea what happened in each instance to say that people were falsely accused. It makes no sense for people to commit social suicide by falsely accusing a rich and powerful man. Please provide more evidence for what you’re talking about. And please don’t assume Me Too is an attack against men or that it is slanted against men, that is a gross mischaracterization.

  32. Deadbeat Lmao 1 year ago

    My boyfriend unfortunately had an abusive ex that ended up committing r*pe while he was on medication for severe pain, but everyone told him it wasn’t worth it to go against her or file a report because people believe women can’t r*pe or be abusive, they fucking can. Women, men, non-binary, anyone can be an asshole.

  33. 本当に大きいMega 1 year ago

    My favorite modern philosopher out here spittin facts.

  34. jill fraser 1 year ago

    Perfectly said ⭐️

  35. Мария Петрова 1 year ago

    Man,you opened my eyes. Yes. I was bullied, but here is danger to become the same person as they are.

  36. Victoria Lee 1 year ago

    Sending you love, Pierre.

  37. Melissa van Coppenhagen 1 year ago

    THIS. NEEDS. TO. BLOW. UP.! You shared a lot of points other people are skimming over. Too many people are focusing on the Selena gossip, and not enough are looking at her manipulation and predatory actions. Very good video my dude!

  38. Leg over Lass 1 year ago

    We are in a narcissistic abusive relationship with our governments:

    A) At first you don’t know it’s abuse; it just leaves an uneasy, sickly feeling in your gut but you have no idea why.

    B) The abuser isolates you, keeps you separated from family, friends and support, making you reliant on only them.

    C) It gradually becomes obvious that it’s abuse, and you start researching and finding others going through exactly the same thing and find the abuse has a name.

    D) We discover the abusers all share the same tactics, and say the same sentences to gaslight us and keep all of our attention on them and only them.

    E) We then become obsessed with researching it, to prove it is actually abuse and we’re not just being ‘too sensitive’ like we’re told.

    F) We remain in the research process for months or years, learning, gaining valuable knowledge about our past and how it is creating more of the same indefinitely.

    G) We become trapped in the research phase because we are too afraid to grow some balls and face the unknown and remove ourselves from the situation entirely, go no contact and stand on our own two feet. In some cases for the first time ever.

    H) We become frustrated and angry with the abuser. ‘If we only give them more love and do more for them; they will surely stop abusing us and we won’t have to take responsibility and leave.’ We develop Stockholm Syndrome.

    I) We make a temporary stand and leave, we speak out, we warn others, but no one else believes you, the abuser says ‘it was just a joke, you’re too sensitive!’

    We are called crazy for talking about it and often called the abusers ourselves. We try to remain strong and stand our ground but are surrounded by flying monkeys, trying to convince us to forgive the abuser and give them another chance. We are told we are being unreasonable.

    J) We go back to the abuser. The cycle continues…

    K) We eventually, (usually when we’ve reached rock bottom and have nothing left to give) months or years down the line, go no contact. We block their number. We remove their stranglehold. We cut contact with the abuser’s helpers who work on their behalf….

    L) L for Love. We learn to love ourselves again and live our lives in peace and freedom. But continue to work on ourselves so that we can recognise and reject the insidious behaviour when it tries to cross our path again.

    We have some of the population at section A (and aid the abusers by gaslighting on their behalf) and many of the rest are stuck in section G; at best.

    We no longer have time to be stuck in section G.

  39. TRE 1 year ago

    I don’t know who tf Shallon is but abused is abused no matter the gender. As a woman, I honestly hate how people especially women dont act like women cant be abusive. They think that only men can be abusive.And if they do know, they applaud. But if it was a guy its negative bs. Abuse is bs full bs for anyone to do or go through. Why cant people realize its a negative behavior for anyone?

  40. TheLindenFool 1 year ago

    I am so happy you included the hypothetical near the end about what young girls might do with her advice- anyone, of any gender, has the potential to be an abuser. We should be teaching everyone, of every gender, how to identify these traits and behaviors- not how to weaponize them.

  41. Minho's Banana milk 1 year ago

    Division is the primary source of unity.

  42. qiqi nightstar 1 year ago

    humans are already pathetic to begin with throughout the course of history, they just evolve and keep getting in touch with the 'now'. we're all mere soldiers trudging past the obstacles, with only our head and heart as our weapons. Thank you Pierre, for being one of those shedding light when things go in a haze. your videos made me think a lot and I am really grateful that I came across them.

  43. tik tok Giselle 1 year ago

    I hope for the sake for whoever watches her and follows her, she does have those people still, she does the right thing.

  44. Laura lee 1 year ago

    Hey man, a couple of things
    1) I suffered that particular 'feminine abuse' from my male significant other for 5 years. He used those insecurities and aspirations and destroyed me mentally. It wasn't easy recognise because abuse is always 'hitting' in the general conversation. I would be interested to see the levels of abuse on both sides like this.

    2) I don't think the voice clip (or at least the one I heard) entirely exonerates Depp. It was a cut in conversation not the whole thing, and I can see it be manipulated to be grabbed. My ex-was in my face screaming at me about how I had "cheated on him" (I went to lunch with my childhood friend) after about an hour of him being in my face screaming that I was a slut I shoved him away from me. He used to force his way into our room and would put his fingers in the door so I accidentally closed it when trying to close it so he couldn't get in and keep screaming at me. He once threatened to commit suicide and started swallowing panadol I had to crash tackle him to stop him and make him spit what he took out. Every time I was the "physically abusive one" and he would make me apologise and say what a shitty human I am. I can hear some of that manipulation in the way Depp is speaking. I could be just projecting but I still don't think the jury is out just yet.

    I agree though I have worked with really shitty manipulative abusive women who have come from past trauma. I really have to check myself so I don't use the behaviours I learned in that relationship now.

  45. majda Elidrissi :3 1 year ago

    I am a woman and I am absolutely disgusted with what she said. Soon as I knew about justin selena thing I unsubscribed. Also, I only knew about evil week from you as I wasn t following her for long. It is really crazy!! N she shd be stopped!

  46. Csoma Roxana 1 year ago

    You are right with everything, especially at the end. They even blame you for the abuse that you receive. For ex: if you had done it this way we wouldn't have fought. After they abuse you, they even ask: why are you taking this so personally?
    I'm starting to think most people are dumb.

  47. BelleDreamer7 1 year ago

    As a woman, I find that people are so excusing of hypocrisy is disgusting. A woman can abuse a man and the man is much less likely to report his abuse because it is KNOWN he is less likely to be believed. An adult woman who is beautiful can express sexual attraction towards a minor and it is laughed at and jokes can be made about it but if a man did the same, people would be repulsed. How hypocritical. I found out about Shallon FROM that video and I was disgusted. Such manipulative behaviors are gross and show that you don’t love your SO, it shows that you are a narcissist who only looks at people as what they are good for you. She is a user and abuser and should not have her advise taken.

  48. Kateřina Šerá 1 year ago

    Honestly. What do we expect from society, that thinks it is perfectly ok to throw people in front of the camera and let them have important intimate conversation for public amusement?

  49. Flames 1 year ago

    I am not here for shallon, I am here because YOU ARE SUCH A COOL YOUTUBER.

  50. Kari Johnson 1 year ago

    It’s gaslighting 101. Your video was very clear. They’re playing dumb.

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