The Harsh Social Impact of the Shallon Lester Drama

y’all talking about how women can abuse too but always defend selena gomez when she literally abused justin bieber as a minor there is a literal video just look it up.

Lästern means gossiping in German. Läster (in German) and Lester are pronounced the same. It fits….

I bet she would look at you and say YOU SHOULD LOOK LIKE AN ASIAN MEN

Abuse… is abuse!
It doesn’t matter the gender! and it doesn’t mean that “all men” or “all women” are abusive but some of them are. This is about abusive people! And she is an abusive person!

The type of world you described towards the end is exactly the type of world I also want to live in. Sometimes I even wish that it was possible to just leave this world and go to another one.

I understand completely everything you’re saying however you and many other people in the world are neglecting spiritual element in this and the spiritual component that it plays in this narrative. I hope and pray people can be in tune with who they are, why they were put on this earth, who created us and how combat these evil principles and how to find healing through our Creator. <—(God/Jesus) PERIODT

I thought you were more woke than to get offended over the ignorant comments she made about Asian men and how those ignorant comments describe you. I mean i hear offensive things that relate to me all the time but if i get offended i fall into the trap. They get me where they wanted. I give them my power. Now Shallon will get even more famous because same has happened with Jefree Star, James Charles and so on… So at the end of the day all the youtubers who made witch hunt style videos to destroy her will lose in the end because you added malicious intent out of anger or envy i get it but still that's how things work.

Exactly, it’s about abusive behavior. So why not make it about abusive behavior on YouTube on the whole? You mischaracterize the point again. Shallon is part of a larger problem.

The issue of exposure is a red herring. We’re talking about abuse, not how many people do or don’t take red pillers, MGTOW, incels seriously, how many people watch them, or whether they’re monetized.

Pointing this out doesn’t make someone a Shallon dickrider. Also, it’s not about “male” abuse, but a subsection of men on YouTube called the “manosphere.”

THE ISSUE IS ABUSE.

I watched D’Angelo’s video. I’ve also been hospitalized for suicide attempts. And I’ve been abused, physically, verbally, and emotionally. I know what you’re both talking about.

If you have a problem with abuse, then be against it, not just when it has to do with your friend. Your arguments suck.

I can't understand why so many youtuber feed her. Maybe they want to be recommended to her fans? After watching this my youtube is full of recommendations of her videos and videos about her, saying – don't watch her, she is evil. I want my music back 🙁

I thought you might be interested in this documentary "Out of Shadows" https://youtu.be/MY8Nfzcn1qQ

Your have made me think about things very differently and change perspectives and so grateful for that keep being a "dreamer" you're not the only one ♥️

The main thing to be pointed out here is that , the topic, is abusive behaviour and how someone is normalising or promoting it. You're not saying that a single person or a gender is bad or abusive. You're calling out the issue and saying that's bad. People tend to miss out that completely.

Just found you,you are gorgeous!

Unfortunately the current outrage surrounding this woman will run its course and it’ll be someone else everyone’s discussing next month… In the meantime she’s more infamous than ever and people like me who had zero clue who she was 2 days ago are now up to our eyeballs in everything Shallon. In a genuinely sick way she’s winning 🤷🏼‍♀️

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My boyfriend unfortunately had an abusive ex that ended up committing r*pe while he was on medication for severe pain, but everyone told him it wasn’t worth it to go against her or file a report because people believe women can’t r*pe or be abusive, they fucking can. Women, men, non-binary, anyone can be an asshole.

Perfectly said ⭐️

Sending you love, Pierre.

We are in a narcissistic abusive relationship with our governments:

A) At first you don’t know it’s abuse; it just leaves an uneasy, sickly feeling in your gut but you have no idea why.

B) The abuser isolates you, keeps you separated from family, friends and support, making you reliant on only them.

C) It gradually becomes obvious that it’s abuse, and you start researching and finding others going through exactly the same thing and find the abuse has a name.

D) We discover the abusers all share the same tactics, and say the same sentences to gaslight us and keep all of our attention on them and only them.

E) We then become obsessed with researching it, to prove it is actually abuse and we’re not just being ‘too sensitive’ like we’re told.

F) We remain in the research process for months or years, learning, gaining valuable knowledge about our past and how it is creating more of the same indefinitely.

G) We become trapped in the research phase because we are too afraid to grow some balls and face the unknown and remove ourselves from the situation entirely, go no contact and stand on our own two feet. In some cases for the first time ever.

H) We become frustrated and angry with the abuser. ‘If we only give them more love and do more for them; they will surely stop abusing us and we won’t have to take responsibility and leave.’ We develop Stockholm Syndrome.

I) We make a temporary stand and leave, we speak out, we warn others, but no one else believes you, the abuser says ‘it was just a joke, you’re too sensitive!’

We are called crazy for talking about it and often called the abusers ourselves. We try to remain strong and stand our ground but are surrounded by flying monkeys, trying to convince us to forgive the abuser and give them another chance. We are told we are being unreasonable.

J) We go back to the abuser. The cycle continues…

K) We eventually, (usually when we’ve reached rock bottom and have nothing left to give) months or years down the line, go no contact. We block their number. We remove their stranglehold. We cut contact with the abuser’s helpers who work on their behalf….

L) L for Love. We learn to love ourselves again and live our lives in peace and freedom. But continue to work on ourselves so that we can recognise and reject the insidious behaviour when it tries to cross our path again.

We have some of the population at section A (and aid the abusers by gaslighting on their behalf) and many of the rest are stuck in section G; at best.

We no longer have time to be stuck in section G.

I am so happy you included the hypothetical near the end about what young girls might do with her advice- anyone, of any gender, has the potential to be an abuser. We should be teaching everyone, of every gender, how to identify these traits and behaviors- not how to weaponize them.

humans are already pathetic to begin with throughout the course of history, they just evolve and keep getting in touch with the 'now'. we're all mere soldiers trudging past the obstacles, with only our head and heart as our weapons. Thank you Pierre, for being one of those shedding light when things go in a haze. your videos made me think a lot and I am really grateful that I came across them.

Hey man, a couple of things
1) I suffered that particular 'feminine abuse' from my male significant other for 5 years. He used those insecurities and aspirations and destroyed me mentally. It wasn't easy recognise because abuse is always 'hitting' in the general conversation. I would be interested to see the levels of abuse on both sides like this.

2) I don't think the voice clip (or at least the one I heard) entirely exonerates Depp. It was a cut in conversation not the whole thing, and I can see it be manipulated to be grabbed. My ex-was in my face screaming at me about how I had "cheated on him" (I went to lunch with my childhood friend) after about an hour of him being in my face screaming that I was a slut I shoved him away from me. He used to force his way into our room and would put his fingers in the door so I accidentally closed it when trying to close it so he couldn't get in and keep screaming at me. He once threatened to commit suicide and started swallowing panadol I had to crash tackle him to stop him and make him spit what he took out. Every time I was the "physically abusive one" and he would make me apologise and say what a shitty human I am. I can hear some of that manipulation in the way Depp is speaking. I could be just projecting but I still don't think the jury is out just yet.

I agree though I have worked with really shitty manipulative abusive women who have come from past trauma. I really have to check myself so I don't use the behaviours I learned in that relationship now.

You are right with everything, especially at the end. They even blame you for the abuse that you receive. For ex: if you had done it this way we wouldn't have fought. After they abuse you, they even ask: why are you taking this so personally?
I'm starting to think most people are dumb.

Honestly. What do we expect from society, that thinks it is perfectly ok to throw people in front of the camera and let them have important intimate conversation for public amusement?

It’s gaslighting 101. Your video was very clear. They’re playing dumb.